I Now Remember Why The Cinema Can Be a Frustrating Experience

Going to the cinema is sought after by many people looking for an enjoyable experience in their downtime. It is a cherished and desired distraction for many, taking people out of the real world and engulfing them in a world full of captivating stories and immersive visuals. 

For example, films like Barbie came out last year, encouraging people who do not usually go to the cinema to go again, with many more people becoming moviegoers. This is great for many reasons, such as supporting female directors and diversity on screens, allowing important messages to be received, and allowing pivotal conversations to start and continue.

The underlying story of films can have hard-hitting and impactful messages and give a voice to many, with so many people leaving the cinema feeling touched, inspired and heard. However, one thing that can hinder people’s experience is how the individuals around them behave whilst also watching the film, as being in the cinema is a shared experience in a shared space, making it essential to know the right etiquette while considering fellow moviegoers. To ensure everyone has an enjoyable experience, here are ten things you should never do in a cinema.  

Talk Loudly

One of the worst sins of cinema etiquette is talking loudly during the film. Whispers are okay but should be limited; however, full-blown conversations are a massive distraction and are considered very rude.  

Bring Noisy Snacks

While snacks are necessary while watching a movie, avoid bringing noisy, crinkly packaging such as crisps or sweets. Opting for quieter snacks such as soft drinks and popcorn is a much better option, benefiting you alongside other moviegoers.  

Arrive Late

Arriving late can disturb others who are already absorbed and engrossed in the film. Therefore, arriving at least a few minutes early to find your seat and get settled is the best way to ensure you do not cause disruptions.  

Use Your Phone

Texting or checking your phone’s notifications is not only distracting but also disrupts the cinematic experience for others. Your fellow moviegoers will be engaged with the film and then will suddenly see a bright light coming from your phone, and in a dark cinema, it’s very obvious and can be annoying. The best thing to do is to put your phone on silent mode or turn it off if you know you may be tempted. 

Sitting in the wrong seats

Yes, you heard me… this can be annoying, time-consuming and disruptive. If the cinema allows you to choose your seats, some people actually take time in choosing the best seats for them and their viewing experience, therefore when they find other people in their pre booked seats, it’s not the best feeling. I know it can be dark, sometimes hard to see, and sometimes pretty empty, but you also chose your seats for a reason, so simply checking once you’re seated that you’re in the right place can make everyone happy and comfortable. 

Bring Crying Babies

Cinemas aren’t suitable for infants who might cry or fuss during the film. Making arrangements for a babysitter if needed is always a good idea. If you do happen to bring young children who might disrupt the film, the best cinema etiquette in this situation is to leave, and once they have calmed down, you should re-enter. 

Kick Seats/ Invading Personal Space  

Constantly kicking the seat in front of you is uncomfortable and irritating for the person sitting there, so stay in your own area and do not invade others’ personal space. Just think: If the tables were reversed, would you appreciate it if someone was doing that to you? Be mindful of your leg space and your overall space.  

Spoil the Plot

Refrain from discussing any type of spoilers that you may know, especially within earshot of others in the cinema, which also includes the waiting line and lobby area. Let’s ensure everyone can enjoy the film without it being spoiled for them.  

Share Unwanted Commentary

While it’s okay and understandable to react to the film emotionally, refrain from providing a running commentary. Those around you may not appreciate your personal opinions and reactions, whether that be by strangers or by the people you came with. You can unpack the film and discuss it until your heart’s content after it has finished.  

Leave Rubbish Behind

You would think that this is a given and very basic manners. However, people still leave their popcorn tubs and drink cups behind, which is just inconsiderate. Ask yourself if you would leave someone’s house this way, with rubbish left scattered everywhere. Ensure you dispose of your rubbish properly in the designated bins, which you can find everywhere in cinemas.  

The cinema is a communal experience that so many love and look forward to. Films really do have the power to greatly impact the watcher. It’s an experience that can be greatly enhanced by practising good etiquette and greatly hindered by people’s poor manners and lack of consideration for others.

By avoiding these ten disruptive behaviours, you can contribute to a more pleasurable cinema experience for yourself and your fellow audience members. Remember, the cinema is where people come to escape and be engrossed in a different world, so let’s make it a pleasant and memorable experience for all.